Tag: life

Let’s talk about the problem with closure or the absence of it

So, on the matter of closure. This need to bring things full circle before being able to let go of them is essentially another thing we hold on to if you think about. If you’re going to free yourself from external inputs as you pursue your inner growth and balance, letting go of a lot of things is going to be the way you achieve this thanks to the independence from external inputs you gain from doing this.

Getting over the hump in life is up to you and learning to let go

The most common source of frustration or objection I hear when talking about taking life with a positive spin all the way through is the fact that if something “bad” happens, it’s “bad”. If you break a leg or lose your house or are heartbroken; none of the above are good. How about if you lose a loved one or are cheated or betrayed, how do you get passed that?

Strong relationships and honest communication

“Honest communication is the basis for establishing a good relationship, even business ones. Genuine interest will always seep through.” ~ FNM Human relationships are built through a series of exchanges that involve communication; the same goes for business to business and business to client relationships. To create a true bond, genuine interest and desire to

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Consistency speaks louder than words and actions

“Actions are louder than words; as is consistency. Blend the two together and you have the truth of that moment, of that person, of that character.” – FNM I saw a quote that stated “I don’t believe what you say. I believe what you do.”  At first impulse I wanted to ‘like’ the Facebook post, but

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Do you turn the pages to enjoy the read of your life?

Inspired by a FB post made by my dear friends @ChargingLIFE.  Thanks guys! “Getting stuck on one part of your life is like living in stagnant mode. Don’t allow the pebbles along the road to chain you down and drown you from seeing the beauty that surrounds you in life. Learn from it, turn that

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Staying calm when angry can avoid getting burnt and results in positive living

In response to an interesting point on anger made by @affirmyourlife on Twitter (@affirmyourlife: Speak when you are angry and you’ll make the best speech you’ll ever regret. – Dr. Laurence J. Peter), which I replied to (@luna12780: “That is very, very true…unless one is able to maintain their calm and clarity even while angry.”), my #inspirational

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Conscience vs. Reputation

“Worry more about your conscience than your reputation. Because your conscience is what you are, your reputation is what others think of you. And what others think of you is their problem.” ~ Charlie Chaplin.